http://bohocrush.disqus.com/enMon, 29 Sep 2008 13:06:06 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568242<p>Hope to see soon some photos of Bohoburlesque!</p><p>And I'd say: Confront your comfort zone on a daily basis!</p><p>Break the rules, become a rule-breaker!<br>Real happiness lies always outside our comfort zone...(but within ourselves...!)</p>foxMon, 29 Sep 2008 13:06:06 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736278<p>Hope to see soon some photos of Bohoburlesque!</p><p>And I'd say: Confront your comfort zone on a daily basis!</p><p>Break the rules, become a rule-breaker!<br>Real happiness lies always outside our comfort zone...(but within ourselves...!)</p>foxMon, 29 Sep 2008 13:06:06 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736277<p>uohhh, I love that mixed crowd talk.. so many people, especially in the artworld, have pretensions about being exclusive. They will never say that word, as to not feel like assholes, but if the shoe fits...<br> There's so much secrecy, "let's just keep it to ourselves" I hate that. Let 'em all in–mix it up!</p>sorgWed, 24 Sep 2008 16:14:20 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568241<p>uohhh, I love that mixed crowd talk.. so many people, especially in the artworld, have pretensions about being exclusive. They will never say that word, as to not feel like assholes, but if the shoe fits...<br> There's so much secrecy, "let's just keep it to ourselves" I hate that. Let 'em all in–mix it up!</p>sorgWed, 24 Sep 2008 16:14:20 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568240<p>promise to never stop teasing me!</p><p>I can pretend not to be a freak when I need to! ha</p><p>people need us freaking them up! this world would be so boring without freaks</p>@gcrushMon, 22 Sep 2008 17:51:22 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736276<p>promise to never stop teasing me!</p><p>I can pretend not to be a freak when I need to! ha</p><p>people need us freaking them up! this world would be so boring without freaks</p>@gcrushMon, 22 Sep 2008 17:51:22 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568238<p>I'm just teasing you! Although, if I ever get the figure for it I'll run around buck naked all the time for ya ;p</p><p>I happen to have a lot of friends that aren't freaks for better or worse. I do like to freak up their lives as much as they let me.</p>BunnyManMon, 22 Sep 2008 03:39:44 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736274<p>I'm just teasing you! Although, if I ever get the figure for it I'll run around buck naked all the time for ya ;p</p><p>I happen to have a lot of friends that aren't freaks for better or worse. I do like to freak up their lives as much as they let me.</p>BunnyManMon, 22 Sep 2008 03:39:44 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736275<p>very good point</p><p>ha ha, we aren't buck neekkid ;) and only sometimes ;) and only a small portion of us run around with less clothing ;) boy do I wish everybody did!!!! that would be awesome!</p><p>and all of our friends are freaks! ;) we love our friends, we love to be around all of them</p><p>I know....we shouldn't love our friends so much...but we do! and we always will</p><p>and I would totally love to get dressed up in a suit and do a presentation! bring it on! :)</p><p>we like to stir the pot! ;)</p><p>silly little butterflies!</p>@gcrushMon, 22 Sep 2008 02:43:56 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568239<p>very good point</p><p>ha ha, we aren't buck neekkid ;) and only sometimes ;) and only a small portion of us run around with less clothing ;) boy do I wish everybody did!!!! that would be awesome!</p><p>and all of our friends are freaks! ;) we love our friends, we love to be around all of them</p><p>I know....we shouldn't love our friends so much...but we do! and we always will</p><p>and I would totally love to get dressed up in a suit and do a presentation! bring it on! :)</p><p>we like to stir the pot! ;)</p><p>silly little butterflies!</p>@gcrushMon, 22 Sep 2008 02:43:56 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-6568237<p>Well to define what causes discomfort first you must realize exactly what comfort is. By the dictionary comfort is defined as;<br>1) a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint,<br>2) consolation for grief or anxiety.</p><p>Comfort comes from something that either physically or mentally calms you. It is a familiar feeling, environment or state of mind. That is why we call it the comfort ZONE. For someone who has never been nude around anybody but their parents and maybe a GF/BF or two being in a crowded place bare naked is as far from a familiar or normal feeling or state of being.. that is discomfort... Likewise someone who spends their life running around crowded partied buck nekkid and handing out spanking to everyone probably wouldn't feel so comfortable dressed up in a business suit giving a presentation to a bunch of stuffy corporate stiffs.<br>There is no list you could write to list all the things that make people uncomfortable because it will be different for every last person, it is whatever they are not used to doing or have tried... The trick here is that discomfort isn't always a bad thing because discomfort is synonymous with adrenaline which is fairly close to EXCITEMENT!!!! The trick is does the amount of excitement you get from the act counter and override the discomfort. For some then answer is no, they don't like adrenaline and they are not really excited by such so it's not worth it, they will never enjoy things that discomfort them. Some people have certain things that excite and arouse them and even though they are not comfortable the excitement for out weighs it all.</p><p>Also if you think about it that corporate meeting must be perdy exciting to the client who has million dollar contracts riding on it! It's all about different strokes baby ;p</p>BunnyManMon, 22 Sep 2008 01:38:09 -0000http://bohocrush.com/blog/2008/09/upcoming-event-mixed-crowd-event-sexy-flirtatious-and-breaking-through-comfort-zones/#comment-5736273<p>Well to define what causes discomfort first you must realize exactly what comfort is. By the dictionary comfort is defined as;<br>1) a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint,<br>2) consolation for grief or anxiety.</p><p>Comfort comes from something that either physically or mentally calms you. It is a familiar feeling, environment or state of mind. That is why we call it the comfort ZONE. For someone who has never been nude around anybody but their parents and maybe a GF/BF or two being in a crowded place bare naked is as far from a familiar or normal feeling or state of being.. that is discomfort... Likewise someone who spends their life running around crowded partied buck nekkid and handing out spanking to everyone probably wouldn't feel so comfortable dressed up in a business suit giving a presentation to a bunch of stuffy corporate stiffs.<br>There is no list you could write to list all the things that make people uncomfortable because it will be different for every last person, it is whatever they are not used to doing or have tried... The trick here is that discomfort isn't always a bad thing because discomfort is synonymous with adrenaline which is fairly close to EXCITEMENT!!!! The trick is does the amount of excitement you get from the act counter and override the discomfort. For some then answer is no, they don't like adrenaline and they are not really excited by such so it's not worth it, they will never enjoy things that discomfort them. Some people have certain things that excite and arouse them and even though they are not comfortable the excitement for out weighs it all.</p><p>Also if you think about it that corporate meeting must be perdy exciting to the client who has million dollar contracts riding on it! It's all about different strokes baby ;p</p>BunnyManMon, 22 Sep 2008 01:38:09 -0000