DISQUS

Catwoman69y2k · 1 year ago

Its not uncommon for you to feel that way. Many in the scene (at least that I have found) are usually the kind whose domme or sub role is determined by the opposite. One time, I dated this cop and he was submissive. Sounds corny or funny, but you would want to take yourself into subby headspace after days on end of having to be the authority.

I am usually a domme but I have submitted in rare exceptions. Power exchange is also a good type of therapy. Note that I dont think it should be used 100% for that as it wouldnt be fitting when involved with another play partner or partners. In fact, I will say that in the BDSM world, sometimes you have to watch for that kind of thing...especially if you are submissive rather than dominative.

Ill spare you further babble and leave it at that. Hope that helps.

Catwoman69y2k · 1 year ago

Its not uncommon for you to feel that way. Many in the scene (at least that I have found) are usually the kind whose domme or sub role is determined by the opposite. One time, I dated this cop and he was submissive. Sounds corny or funny, but you would want to take yourself into subby headspace after days on end of having to be the authority.

I am usually a domme but I have submitted in rare exceptions. Power exchange is also a good type of therapy. Note that I dont think it should be used 100% for that as it wouldnt be fitting when involved with another play partner or partners. In fact, I will say that in the BDSM world, sometimes you have to watch for that kind of thing...especially if you are submissive rather than dominative.

Ill spare you further babble and leave it at that. Hope that helps.

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

About half of the population (of both genders) has fantasies about bondage and domination/submission. So you're certainly not alone in your feelings. Most people though don't act on their fantansies, either because of personal fear or lack of oppertunity.
I've been doing bondage for quite a few years, and I've found that there is no single reason why people enjoy it. My first girlfriend liked being tied up because it took away her guilt in enjoying sex - if she was tied up, then she could pretend that she was being forced to enjoy it and it wasn't fault, hence, no guilt.
So, how should you proceed? "Trust" is the key word. Submission is a gift that should not be givin away lightly. Dont give it to someone if you don't trust the person or the situation. I usually suggest going with your gut feelings on this - if something feels wrong, then there's probably something wrong.
On a side note, if you'd like me to teach Shone some basic ropework, let me know.
Arthur

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

About half of the population (of both genders) has fantasies about bondage and domination/submission. So you're certainly not alone in your feelings. Most people though don't act on their fantansies, either because of personal fear or lack of oppertunity.
I've been doing bondage for quite a few years, and I've found that there is no single reason why people enjoy it. My first girlfriend liked being tied up because it took away her guilt in enjoying sex - if she was tied up, then she could pretend that she was being forced to enjoy it and it wasn't fault, hence, no guilt.
So, how should you proceed? "Trust" is the key word. Submission is a gift that should not be givin away lightly. Dont give it to someone if you don't trust the person or the situation. I usually suggest going with your gut feelings on this - if something feels wrong, then there's probably something wrong.
On a side note, if you'd like me to teach Shone some basic ropework, let me know.
Arthur

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

About half of the population (of both genders) has fantasies about bondage and domination/submission. So you're certainly not alone in your feelings. Most people though don't act on their fantansies, either because of personal fear or lack of oppertunity.
I've been doing bondage for quite a few years, and I've found that there is no single reason why people enjoy it. My first girlfriend liked being tied up because it took away her guilt in enjoying sex - if she was tied up, then she could pretend that she was being forced to enjoy it and it wasn't fault, hence, no guilt.
So, how should you proceed? "Trust" is the key word. Submission is a gift that should not be givin away lightly. Dont give it to someone if you don't trust the person or the situation. I usually suggest going with your gut feelings on this - if something feels wrong, then there's probably something wrong.
On a side note, if you'd like me to teach Shone some basic ropework, let me know.
Arthur

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

Oops, I thought my first comment didn't post. Sorry 'bout that.

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

Oops, I thought my first comment didn't post. Sorry 'bout that.

Arthur "RenoBinder" Bruin · 1 year ago

Oops, I thought my first comment didn't post. Sorry 'bout that.

georgette · 1 year ago

kat_ always a wealth of knowledge, thank you!

arthur!- hmmmm just might have to take you up on that! I would love for shone to know a few moves! ;)

I am really excited about this journey. Something I really want to share with my baby love! thank you for your love and sharing all of your information.

so excited! ;)

georgette · 1 year ago

kat_ always a wealth of knowledge, thank you!

arthur!- hmmmm just might have to take you up on that! I would love for shone to know a few moves! ;)

I am really excited about this journey. Something I really want to share with my baby love! thank you for your love and sharing all of your information.

so excited! ;)

andar909 · 1 year ago

hi, andar here, i just read your post. i like very much. agree to you, sir.